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2. Prospective B’nai Mitzvah should be familiar with Siddur Hebrew, take on meaningful study of Torah and Judaism with serious engagement with at least one Torah portion.
3. Prospective B’nai Mitzvah should regularly attend Kol Ami religious services so that they feel a part of the community.
4. Prospective B’nai Mitzvah should perform a Mitzvah/Tzedakah/Tikkun Olam project prior to B’nai Mitzvah.
5. Parents are encouraged to be involved in the community to model engagement in the religious community and in the B’nai Mitzvah service.
6. Prospective B’nai Mitzvah should lead at least part of the service, leyn at least some of the parshah and lead the dvar torah.
7. With whom the child and family should consult in the Bar/Bat Mitzvah preparation process: At least six months in advance of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah, the family will choose a madriach (either a moreh (teacher) or a rabbi or a service leader) to work with and the Bar/Bat Mitzvah will set up a contract with the madriach as to what will be accomplished during the preparation period. The madriach will have the responsibility to manage the contract with the Bar/Bat Mitzvah. If the rabbi is not the madriach, there will be at least 2 meetings with the rabbi during the process. There will be at least monthly meetings with the madriach along the way. A final decision about going forward with the Bar/Bat Mitzvah will be made 10 weeks in advance of the date of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah.
8. Candy that will be thrown after the Bar/Bat Mitzvah will be non-meltable so as not to soil the upholstery. (It is a church rule that food is not permitted in the sanctuary. We need to get permission to exercise this custom if we use the sanctuary in the future.)
9. A Bar/Bat Mitzvah is also a community celebration. If there is a Kiddush in the same location as the service, it should be available to the entire kehillah (religious community). If there is a private event, it should not be held at the same location as the kehillah.
10. Post B’nai Mitzvah Involvement can include involvement in services, creating a special class for graduates; B’nai B’rith Youth Organization activities; special trips to locations of Jewish merit (Philadelphia as home of the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation and Reconstructionist Rabbinical College, as well as the home of many Jewish Renewal activities is one such possibility); Holocaust Museum trip, involvement with Tikkun Olam projects and possible involvement with the Chavurah No’ar at Adat Shalom (a post Bar/Bat Mitzvah group).
Use of Torah
Tikkun Olam and Social Action Policy
Mission/Vision
As moral human beings, as Reconstructionist Jews, and as members of the Kol Ami community and congregation, we believe that it is our duty to incorporate acts of Tikkun Olam into our daily lives and into the fabric of our communal activities. We hold to fundamental beliefs about the needs of all people to be treated with basic human dignity, to be entitled to basic human rights and to be able to live a life encompassing the “Four Freedoms:” Freedom of speech and expression, Freedom of every person to worship God in his or her own way, Freedom from want, and, above all, Freedom from fear.
To these ends we endorse and adopt this Policy for Tikkun Olam and Social Action. In doing so, our goal is to provide a framework that encourages and enables Kol Ami members to act individually, collectively with other members of Kol Ami, or organizationally as a part of the formally-organized Kol Ami body. This last category includes measures of physical assistance, education, and, when necessary, political action that further our commitments to our fellow human beings, are consistent with our consciences, and are in line with Kol Ami's obligations as a 501(c)(3) organization under US tax law.
We do so in full knowledge that we are also members of multiple other concentric communities, including our cities, counties, states, country and world. As such we recognize our obligation to strive for social justice and harmony. But we are also cognizant of our varied commitments to, and comfort with, actively participating in the political processes and balancing the sometimes competing needs of the various communities to which we belong. We strive to foster an environment of open-mindedness, education, and dialog to reach decisions that reflect the collective values of our congregation.
Goals
Action Guidelines
Responsibilities for Tikkun Olam
To encourage Tikkun Olam within the Kol Ami community, the Tikkun Olam committee will facilitate the scheduling of at least one formal event per quarter, alternating between a communally-encouraged Maasim Tovim project (e.g., a food or clothing drive) and an educational activity focused on some social or political issue of interest to the community. This goal should, in no way, discourage members from coordinating or publicizing and encouraging participation in other events, but should represent a baseline commitment of the community. It is expected that congregants will generate ideas for programs and take the lead in organizing individual events.
The Tikkun Olam committee will assist congregants by
Committee Structure
The Tikkun Olam committee shall consist of no less than three people and follow the standards for committees outlined in the Kol Ami by-laws. The committee shall meet at least once per quarter and shall have an annual budget as approved by the Kol Ami Steering committee and by-laws.
A structured approach will be used for decision-making, based on how controversial or expensive the topic is.
A. For decisions of routine business nature and requiring less than $100 in expenditures: a simple majority (50% +1) of Tikkun Olam committee members present at the time the vote is taken.
B. For decisions of routine business nature and requiring over $100 in expenditures: The Tikkun Olam committee sends a recommendation, agreed to by a simple majority (50% +1) of Tikkun Olam committee members present at the time of the vote, to the Steering Committee for its determination.
C. For decisions.on whether to support an action on an issue as a corporate body, a process that typically will take about a month:
1. The Tikkun Olam committee sends a request to the Steering committee to consider whether the congregation as a whole should take a stance on an issue. The request must be approved by a simple majority (50% +1) of Tikkun Olam committee members present at the time of the vote is taken.
2. The Steering committee considers the impact of taking a stance on the issue by considering the following questions:
§ Is this an issue that we believe is a violation of fundamental human rights?
§ Is this an issue about which we are willing to split the congregation if necessary and risk losing membership?
§ Is this an issue that will place the reputation of the congregation at risk, and is the issue worth that risk?
§ Is there sufficient time for the issue to be discussed and properly considered by the congregation?
3. If a two-thirds majority of the Steering committee answers the questions as “yes” and aggress to take a stance on the issue, the issue is put to the congregation for a vote.
4. The issue is then introduced to the entire congregation. The Tikkun Olam committee will organize at least one event to educate members on both sides of the issue. Following which, a period of discussion will last for no less than one week, with discussion forums being made available either formally through meetings or informally through e-mail, web-based services, or other direct communication.
5. The decision to take a position as a congregation must pass by a super-majority of two-thirds of ballots cast by eligible members of the congregation.
To vote in Tikkun Olam committee meetings, voters must be members in good standing with Kol Ami and must be recognized to be a member of the Tikkun Olam committee. A quorum of members of the committee must be present at meetings to vote.
To vote in Congregation-wide initiatives, voters must be members in good standing with Kol Ami, as defined in the Kol Ami by-laws. Members do not need to be present at a meeting to vote. Votes can be submitted by e-mail or in writing.